Stories With a Purpose

Following Jesus · Part 20 of 40 · 2 min

A Gift of Perfume

Jesus was in Bethany before the Passover. A supper was prepared for him. Martha served, and Lazarus sat at the table.

Martha served while Lazarus shared the table with Jesus.
Martha served while Lazarus shared the table with Jesus.

The guests shared the evening meal.

Mary brought a jar of costly perfume. She poured it on Jesus' feet and wiped them with her hair.

The house filled with its fragrance.

Her gift showed love and gratitude. She was giving something precious to the One who had shown her great kindness.

Mary gave Jesus a precious gift of love.
Mary gave Jesus a precious gift of love.

Judas complained that the perfume could have been sold and the money given to the poor. But his words hid his own dishonest interest in the money.

Jesus defended Mary. He connected her gift with the burial that lay ahead.

Jesus defended Mary’s loving gift.
Jesus defended Mary’s loving gift.

Mary had not understood everything that was coming. Still, Jesus received her loving gift and valued what she had done.

The jar was small, but the kindness it represented was great.

We do not need an expensive gift to show love. We can use what we have with care: a drawing, a helping hand, or time spent with someone.

A drawing can also be a gift of love.
A drawing can also be a gift of love.

A gift given freely is different from a gift meant to make us look important. Jesus notices the love behind it.

Retelling of John 12:1–8.

Supporting reading: The Desire of Ages, chapter 62. Open the book

Talk about it together

  • Gratitude
  • Generosity

A verse to remember

“giving thanks always for all things to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ,”

Ephesians 5:20NKJV

  1. What filled the house when Mary poured out perfume for Jesus?
  2. How might Mary have felt when Jesus defended her loving gift?
  3. What loving gift can we offer without buying something expensive?

Activity · 2–5 minutes

A Gift without Shopping

Think of someone you would like to thank. Choose a gift you do not need to buy: say something kind, help with a task, or spend a few minutes together. Practice offering it and saying why you appreciate that person.

Try it today: We can show gratitude through our time, words, and simple acts of help.

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