Stories With a Purpose

A parable of Jesus · Part 15 of 20 · 3 min

The Servant Who Forgot to Forgive

Peter asked Jesus how many times he should forgive. Jesus answered with a story about a king and a servant.

The servant owed the king an enormous amount of money. He could never pay it all.

When the king asked for payment, the man knelt and begged for patience.

The servant pleaded with the king for patience.
The servant pleaded with the king for patience.

The king felt compassion.

“I forgive your debt. You may go in peace.”

The servant no longer had to pay that huge debt.

A king looks kindly at a kneeling servant.
The king forgave a debt the servant could not pay.

But outside, the servant met another man who owed him much less.

Instead of remembering the kindness he had received, he demanded payment immediately.

The other man also asked for patience. He needed time.

The other servant also asked for patience.
The other servant also asked for patience.

But the servant would not listen and had him sent to prison.

Other servants saw what happened and felt sad. They told the king.

The king called him back. He reminded him of the huge debt he had forgiven. Shouldn't the servant have shown compassion too?

The king reminded him of the compassion he had received.
The king reminded him of the compassion he had received.

The servant had to answer for his lack of mercy.

Jesus taught that receiving God's forgiveness should help us forgive from our hearts.

When someone makes a mistake and asks forgiveness, we can listen and seek a kinder way forward.

Forgiving does not mean saying harm is all right. It does not mean staying silent if someone hurts us.

We can always ask a trusted grown-up for help and protection.

We can ask Mom for help and protection.
We can ask Mom for help and protection.

But we do not need to wish for revenge. We can ask God for kind hearts that remember the patience he shows us.

Jesus tells us a story, and his love stays with us.

Retelling of Matthew 18:21–35.

Supporting reading: Christ's Object Lessons, chapter 19. Open the English book

Talk about it together

  • Forgiveness
  • Compassion
  • Patience

A verse to remember

“Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you?”

Matthew 18:33 · excerptNKJV

  1. What did the servant forget after the king forgave his debt?
  2. How did the other servants feel when they saw his lack of compassion?
  3. How can you respond patiently to a friend’s small mistake?

Activity · 2–5 minutes

Remembering Patience We Received

Remember a simple time when someone was patient as you learned. Imagine a friend making the same mistake and practice a kind response. If there is harm or fear, the response can be finding a grown-up.

Try it today: I can learn to forgive and also ask for help when someone hurts me.

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