Stories With a Purpose

A parable of Jesus · Part 12 of 20 · 3 min

Two Men Went to Pray

Jesus told this story to people who thought they were better than others.

Two men went to the temple to pray. One was a Pharisee, who knew the religious rules. The other collected taxes.

Two men pray apart from each other in an ancient temple courtyard.
Two men went to the temple to pray.

The Pharisee stood and began to speak.

Instead of asking for help, he compared himself with others. He thanked God that he was not like people who did wrong, or like that tax collector.

He listed the good things he did and the rules he kept.

The other man stood farther away. He knew he had done wrong.

He did not pretend that everything was fine. He did not even dare to look up toward heaven.

He spoke honestly with God.

“God, have mercy on me. I need your help.”

A man bows his head in a humble prayer.
The humble man asked God for help.

Jesus explained that this man went home accepted by God. He had asked for mercy with a sincere heart.

The humble man returned home accepted by God.
The humble man returned home accepted by God.

The other had used prayer to feel superior.

God does not need us to brag. We can tell him the truth about ourselves.

If you broke something and hid it, you can admit it. If you hurt someone, you can ask forgiveness and try to make things right.

We can admit our mistakes and ask forgiveness.
We can admit our mistakes and ask forgiveness.

You do not need to say, “I am better than my brother,” or, “I never do anything wrong.” We all need help learning to love.

Being humble does not mean thinking we have no value. God loves us very much. It means admitting we need his guidance.

We can do good without looking down on others. God hears us when we come to him honestly.

Jesus tells us a story, and his love stays with us.

Retelling of Luke 18:9–14.

Supporting reading: Christ's Object Lessons, chapter 13. Open the English book

Talk about it together

  • Humility
  • Honesty
  • Prayer

A verse to remember

“God, be merciful to me a sinner!”

Luke 18:13 · excerptNKJV

  1. Which of the two men honestly asked God for help?
  2. How might someone feel when another person claims to be better?
  3. How can you admit a mistake without comparing yourself with a sibling or friend?

Activity · 2–5 minutes

An Honest Sentence

A grown-up invents a small mistake, such as forgetting to put away a toy. Practice a three-part response: admit what happened, apologize, and suggest how to make it right. You do not need to share private mistakes.

Try it today: I can admit that I need help without thinking I am worth less.

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