Stories With a Purpose

David: From the Flock to the Kingdom · Part 6 of 20 · 4 min

Jonathan’s Signal

Life at the palace had become dangerous for David. Saul was jealous and had spoken of killing him. Jonathan learned what was happening and warned his friend.

Jonathan spoke to his father on David’s behalf. He reminded Saul that David had served him well and helped the people. For a while, Saul listened. David returned to his service, and things seemed ready to improve.

David needs to find safety.
David needs to find safety.

But the peace did not last. Saul acted violently again. David had to escape, and his wife, Michal, helped him leave home. Then he went to Samuel. Moving away was necessary so he would not remain where someone might hurt him.

Later, David spoke with Jonathan again. He needed to know whether he could return or whether danger remained. Jonathan wanted to help, although it was hard to believe everything his father was willing to do against his friend.

The friends made a plan. David would stay away from a royal meal. Jonathan would watch Saul’s reaction when he noticed the empty place. This would help them tell the difference between a safe opportunity and a real threat.

Jonathan speaks to Saul about David.
Jonathan speaks to Saul about David.

They also agreed on a signal in the field. Jonathan would go out with a boy to practice with his bow. What he said about collecting the arrows would carry a message for David, who would wait hidden some distance away.

During the meal, Jonathan discovered that his father still meant to harm David. Saul became furious even with his own son. The danger could no longer be ignored. Jonathan left feeling deeply sad about what was happening.

The next morning, he went to the field as planned. He brought the boy and shot his arrows into the open land. Then he gave the signal David needed: it was not safe to return. He must leave to find shelter.

Jonathan gives the agreed signal in the field.
Jonathan gives the agreed signal in the field.

The boy collected the arrows without knowing the message hidden in those instructions. Jonathan gave him the equipment and sent him home. When they were alone, David could come out from his hiding place and approach his friend.

Their farewell was full of sadness. They had shared good days and a promise of friendship. Now they could not remain together. They wept and embraced. Separating for safety did not make their love for each other any smaller.

Jonathan remembered the commitment they had made before God. Their kindness should reach their families too. Then they took different paths. Jonathan returned, and David left the danger that was still following him.

The friends say goodbye with sadness and love.
The friends say goodbye with sadness and love.

The signal had offered real help. Jonathan listened, found out what was happening, and warned David in time. David accepted that protection and sought safety. Their friendship could not erase the threat, but it helped them take the next careful step.

Based on 1 Samuel 19:1-18; 20:18-42 · Patriarchs and Prophets, 64.

Talk about it together

  • Commitment
  • Wisdom
  • Friendship

A verse to remember

“I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go”

Psalm 32:8 · excerptNKJV

  1. Why did David need shelter?
  2. How did Jonathan learn whether danger remained?
  3. What practical help did he give his friend?

Activity · 2–5 minutes

People who help

With a trusted adult, draw three people the child can ask for help. Add their names and practice saying: I need help; I want to tell you what happened. Keep the paper somewhere familiar and review how to reach those people.

Try it today: Tell a trusted adult when something makes you feel unsafe.

More stories with these values

Activities for this story

Play online or print materials for home, classroom, and family.