Stories With a Purpose

A parable of Jesus · Part 17 of 20 · 3 min

Two Sons and a Vineyard

Jesus told a story about a father with two sons. One day he asked them to work in his vineyard, where grapes grew.

A father talks with his two sons beside a vineyard.
The father asked his sons to work in the vineyard.

First he spoke to one son.

The son said he did not want to go. Those were not kind words.

The first son said he did not want to go.
The first son said he did not want to go.

But later he thought about his answer, changed his mind, and went to work.

The father also spoke to the other son.

This son said he would go. His words sounded respectful.

But he did not keep his promise. He never went to the vineyard.

The other son said yes but did not go.
The other son said yes but did not go.

The first son began caring for the grapes. His actions changed his answer.

One son tends the vineyard while the other walks away without working.
The son who changed his mind went to work.

Jesus asked which son had done what his father wanted.

It was the first one, who refused at first but then went.

This story helps us think about our words and actions.

Saying yes can be easy. Doing what we say matters too.

If we promise to put away toys, we can begin picking them up. If we say we will share, we can offer a turn.

We can keep the promises we make.
We can keep the promises we make.

And if we answered unkindly, we can still admit it and change.

We do not have to stay stuck in our first mistake. We can say, “I'm sorry. I'll try again,” and then do what is right.

God wants to help us live with love, beyond saying nice words.

This does not mean doing everything anyone asks. If something frightens or hurts you, tell a trusted grown-up.

We can say no and ask for help.
We can say no and ask for help.

In this story the father asked for a good task. Jesus invites our actions to go with our words.

Jesus tells us a story, and his love stays with us.

Retelling of Matthew 21:28–32.

Supporting reading: Christ's Object Lessons, chapter 22. Open the English book

Talk about it together

  • Responsibility
  • Honesty
  • Commitment

A verse to remember

“but afterward he regretted it and went.”

Matthew 21:29 · excerptNKJV

  1. Which of the two sons actually went to work in the vineyard?
  2. How might the father feel seeing his son change his mind?
  3. What small good promise can you follow with an action today?

Activity · 2–5 minutes

From Yes to Action

With a grown-up, choose a small, safe task, such as putting away two toys. Say what you will do and do it. Then talk about the difference between saying yes and following through, and how to try again.

Try it today: If I answered unkindly, I can admit it and change through a good action.

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