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Daniel and His Friends: Faithful Far from Home · Part 2 of 8 · 4 min

A Choice at the Table

At Babylon's palace, Daniel and his friends had a great deal to learn. They were also given food from the king's table and wine to drink. At first, that might have seemed like a special privilege.

But Daniel wanted to be faithful to God in the way he lived. He decided not to eat or drink what would take him away from his beliefs. He did not want to offend anyone; he needed a respectful way to explain.

He spoke with the official caring for them and asked not to be made to eat the king's food. God helped the man regard Daniel kindly. Even so, the official was afraid.

If the young men looked weak, the king might blame him. His concern was real. Daniel listened to that problem instead of becoming angry because he did not immediately receive the answer he wanted.

Daniel respectfully asked for an alternative.
Daniel respectfully asked for an alternative.

Then he suggested a ten-day test to the steward responsible for the four friends. They would be served vegetables and water. Afterward, the steward could compare them with the other students. He agreed to observe the results.

Each day, water filled the cups and simple food arrived at the table. The friends kept their decision throughout the test. They were not trying to win an argument; they were trying to live according to their faith.

For ten days they received vegetables and water.
For ten days they received vegetables and water.

At the end of ten days, the four looked healthy. The steward continued giving them vegetables instead of the king's food and wine. They had found an answer without insulting or looking down on other people.

Their training continued. Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah studied carefully. They needed to listen to their teachers, remember new words, and do the tasks they were given well.

God gave them knowledge and skill. Daniel also received understanding of visions and dreams. These gifts were not a reason to boast. The friends needed to prepare themselves to serve responsibly.

The four friends learned carefully.
The four friends learned carefully.

When their time of training ended, they were brought before Nebuchadnezzar. The king spoke with them and tested their understanding. Among the young men prepared to serve, these four stood out for their wisdom.

Daniel's decision had begun in his heart and had been expressed respectfully. He could remain firm while also listening to another person's concern and suggesting a solution.

The king recognized the young men’s wisdom.
The king recognized the young men’s wisdom.

When we need to choose, we can pause and ask for help, too. A grown-up can guide us in caring for our bodies and respecting our beliefs. Being faithful does not require harsh words. We can choose with firmness and kindness.

Based on Daniel 1:8–21 · Prophets and Kings, 39.

Talk about it together

  • Respect
  • Self-control
  • Perseverance

A verse to remember

“But Daniel purposed in his heart that he would not defile himself”

Daniel 1:8 · excerptNKJV

  1. What did Daniel ask to eat and drink?
  2. How did he consider the steward’s concern?
  3. Who can help you when you need to make a choice?

Activity · 2–5 minutes

Choosing respectfully

A grown-up offers two safe choices for a snack or task. The child explains a choice kindly and listens to one question. Practice saying, “I would prefer this one, please,” without mocking another person’s choice.

Try it today: I can choose firmly and kindly.

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Count and choose

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