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David: From the Flock to the Kingdom · Part 8 of 20 · 4 min

David Chooses Not to Harm

David was still fleeing from Saul. He and his men were among the caves and rocks of En Gedi. The land offered hiding places, but it did not erase the danger. The king was still searching for him with many soldiers.

When Saul learned where David was, he went after him. Along the way, he entered a cave alone. He did not know that David and his men were hiding deep inside. Suddenly, the pursuer was very close to the people he sought.

David and his men hide in the cave.
David and his men hide in the cave.

David’s companions saw an opportunity. They thought this was the moment to put an end to their enemy. Now they urged David to use his advantage against the king pursuing them.

David approached unseen and cut off a small corner of Saul’s robe. Then he drew back. He held proof of how close he had been, but his conscience troubled him because he had shown disrespect in doing it.

David knew Saul had been anointed as king. He did not want to take the kingdom by killing him or letting his men do so. Although he was being treated unjustly, he still had to choose how to use his own power.

Saul enters without knowing David is nearby.
Saul enters without knowing David is nearby.

He told his companions to stop. They must not harm the king. Saul left the cave without knowing what had happened and continued on his way. David let him move away before coming out into the daylight himself.

From a safe distance, David called to Saul and bowed respectfully. The king turned to listen. David showed him the piece of cloth. He had been close enough to harm Saul, but he had chosen to spare his life.

David asked why Saul listened to people who said David wanted to hurt him. The little corner of the robe told another story. He was not seeking to destroy the king. He asked God to judge what was happening between them.

David holds a small piece of the robe.
David holds a small piece of the robe.

He did not deny the danger or pretend that everything had been all right. He explained his choice and kept his distance. Respecting a life did not require him to return within reach of someone who had been trying to harm him.

Saul recognized David’s voice and began to weep. He admitted that David had treated him better than he had treated David. He also acknowledged that David would one day be king. For a moment, he could name the kindness he had received.

The king asked David not to destroy his family when that time came. David promised. Then Saul went home.

David speaks to Saul from a safe distance.
David speaks to Saul from a safe distance.

David and his men returned to their stronghold. He had chosen to refuse revenge and remain protected. In his hand he had held a little piece of cloth. In his choices he showed restraint, respect, and the importance of keeping a safe distance.

Based on 1 Samuel 24 · Patriarchs and Prophets, 65.

Talk about it together

  • Self-control
  • Compassion
  • Respect

A verse to remember

“But my hand shall not be against you.”

1 Samuel 24:12 · excerptNKJV

  1. What did David’s companions want him to do?
  2. What did the little piece of robe show?
  3. Why did David return to the stronghold after speaking?

Activity · 2–5 minutes

A safe pause

Together, draw an open hand on paper. With help, write five choices on the fingers for an angry moment: stop, breathe, step away, ask for help, and speak. Practice with a small situation, such as waiting for a turn to choose a book.

Try it today: You can choose not to hurt someone and still seek protection; you do not have to approach someone who endangers you.

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